Love is an irresistible desire to be irresistibly desired. -- Robert Frost
Yep, that is what love is, a desire to be desired. A wish to be wished. Love is a great realization to be realized. A feeling to be understood. An emotion to be sensed or flood of emotions to be felt. Love is not unreal, it is a real entity. Love is all around us, even mere smiling at someone is a gesture of love.
Can we control our emotions? Can we control our feelings? The answer might be may be. But for me it is a solid no!
We cannot control our emotions. It is like law of conservation of energy. Energy can neither be created nor destroyed. Love is not created, it just exists. Energy transfers from one form to another. Love, if we try to hide it, will transfer itself into other feelings. Now what other feelings... May be it comes out as a deep cry or an unbearable pain more likely an extreme hurt feeling!
But why do we fall in love? We fall in love because we want to. We want to fall in love because we need to. We need to fall in love because we just cannot live without it. Love is as important as water is to life.
We do not need to explicitly fall in love. It just happens. Love is a natural phenomena, you do not have to do anything to fall in love. When we find that person, to whom we are meant to fall in love, we develop a beautiful chemistry with that person. It is all natural. We start feeling good. Everything starts to seem pleasant. Our brain starts generating such signals that it dawns upon us that this person is the right person for us. The person whom we want to spend our life with!
Yep, that is what love is, a desire to be desired. A wish to be wished. Love is a great realization to be realized. A feeling to be understood. An emotion to be sensed or flood of emotions to be felt. Love is not unreal, it is a real entity. Love is all around us, even mere smiling at someone is a gesture of love.
Can we control our emotions? Can we control our feelings? The answer might be may be. But for me it is a solid no!
We cannot control our emotions. It is like law of conservation of energy. Energy can neither be created nor destroyed. Love is not created, it just exists. Energy transfers from one form to another. Love, if we try to hide it, will transfer itself into other feelings. Now what other feelings... May be it comes out as a deep cry or an unbearable pain more likely an extreme hurt feeling!
But why do we fall in love? We fall in love because we want to. We want to fall in love because we need to. We need to fall in love because we just cannot live without it. Love is as important as water is to life.
We do not need to explicitly fall in love. It just happens. Love is a natural phenomena, you do not have to do anything to fall in love. When we find that person, to whom we are meant to fall in love, we develop a beautiful chemistry with that person. It is all natural. We start feeling good. Everything starts to seem pleasant. Our brain starts generating such signals that it dawns upon us that this person is the right person for us. The person whom we want to spend our life with!
...mr wajahat,,i have something to say :D
ReplyDeleteLove carefully, you do not need to throw all yourself blindly. Moreover somethings are Destiny decided ,you just have to wait for it,respect for it..rest Life is beautiful explore it .
Ok!
ReplyDeleteMiss Urfi ...
yup, practical ,logical ,possible,genuine things are always better then illusions which some times includes love too.
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